Adult Breastfeeding : Here Is How Breastfeeding Your Partner Leads To A Great Relationship

I wonder if they say it or not. But, Forbidden fruits are always sweeter. But, ADULT BREASTFEEDING! Isn’t it going a little overboard? Well, is it?

It might seem ‘Gross’ or like a taboo to some people. But, if both you and your partner are comfortable with the idea, you can at least say yes to a new way to boost intimacy in a relationship. Many husbands feel turned on by the idea of their wives breastfeeding them.

Even women also feel sexually stimulated while breastfeeding their partner, and most of them enjoy doing it. Although it is quite common to many of us, some are doubtful to try. So, I think a little bit of help wouldn’t hurt. Here is your guide to adult breastfeeding; or erotic lactation 101.

Adult Breastfeeding, Myths, Whispers & Reality 

Let’s start with an adult nursing relationship story.

Roman Author Pliny, in his Book Seven of Natural History, describes the story of breastfeeding parents in Ancient Rome. According to Pliny’s writing, a Plebeian woman was smuggling sustenance to her incarcerated mother, who was imprisoned for a capital offense.

The mother was denied to have food, and her postpartum daughter was able to visit the mother after a thorough body search. When the daughter reached her imprisoned mother, she used to feed her mother with her own breast milk.

But, this is quite different from adult breastfeeding among couples. Many of us worry if it is ‘Right or Wrong’ because erotic lactation is not a widely accepted thing and is not seen as something couples would normally do.

Also, some societal norms and communities see adult breastfeeding as a taboo or fetish. To SIMPLIFY – adult breastfeeding is not TYPICAL and not part of mainstream culture. So, even if one of the partners might be dying to try it out, the other one would be downright unsure.

Also, no scientific evidence suggests adult breastfeeding offers any magical health benefits (it’s not any healing potion). Honestly, there are also no medical documents supporting the physical benefits of adult breastfeeding. There is also no medical document in the mainstream medical organization.

Erotic Lactation: Should You Try Adult Breastfeeding?

I know you are not here to turn pages from medical journals, But you are anxious to know about the fetish. Just as I said, forbidden fruits are sweeter; this might also be a sweet experience for you if you are willing to try out breastfeeding with your husband.

If you are stuck between ‘should I or should I not?’ then know this – this naughty act depends only on Consent and Comfort. If you and your partner are willing to tryout erotic lactation, then no one’s stopping you (at least while you are in the bedroom).

A desire that does not hurt is not a wrong desire to have. If you feel like asking your partner to try your breast milk, then it has different benefits for you.

1. Balance Out Uneven Lactation

When you have a baby with breast preference, then a daddy can come to the rescue. Sometimes one of the breasts does not produce the same amount of milk as the other one. Adult breastfeeding can help even out the breasts by feeding on the breast neglected by the baby.

2. Boosting Milk Production

Adult breastfeeding stimulates your body, helping your breasts to produce more milk.

3. Draining The Breasts

Your partner will easily drain the breasts faster than the baby can. This has different health benefits, such as – preventing plugged milk ducts and relieving mild breast engorgement and nipple breast.

4. Encouraging, & Supporting

adult breastfeeding relationship can be quite encouraging. If you have your partner to suck on your breasts, it can be encouraging to make the process normal for you, not to mention that the relationship feels much warmer and intimate than before.

5. Great Arousal

Most women are very sensitive to nipple or breast arousal, making adult breastfeeding one of the best ways to turn them on. Erotic lactation can be quite the turn-on if you are trying to spice up your sexual relationship with your partner.

Why Does My Husband Want To Taste My Breast Milk?

Whether the ulterior motive is to try the taste of their partner’s breast milk or feel turned on by lactating breast, it is completely normal. Some are interested in trying out their partner/wife’s breast milk for different reasons. Perhaps we should ponder upon what excites people to try adult breastfeeding.

7. Better Health!

Call it a myth or a widespread belief; many take breast milk to have certain health benefits. It is often seen as a home remedy for different health benefits. However, no medical documents confirm breast milk to have any health benefits for adults, so if you are making a puppy eye in front of your wife and trying to convince her why it is your turn now – not the best excuse, guys.

8. Adult Breastfeeding Fetish

The internet is swarming with thousands of adult breastfeeding stories thanks to some people’s interest in erotic lactation or adult nursing. Some men often have this sexual fantasy where they feel turned on by erotic lactation or adult nursing.

Many women often find this experience quite amusing to have their husbands suck on their breast while it starts licking or when they are trying to release pressure. It can be quite an amusing experience during sex and might increase intimacy among couples.

9. Anything For Intimacy!

It is only natural for the husband-wife intimacy to go down when the wife is busy breastfeeding the baby. Also, husbands often feel that lactating breasts are off-limit for them (now that the baby is born, they have lost the right to have their turn.)

Perhaps you can use this opportunity to increase intimacy with your husband/partner. Erotic lactation can be a great way to increase intimacy with your husband after childbirth.

Just standing straight in front of him and proposing to let him have a go at your TREASURE CHEST can make him feel warm and fuzzy again. Most men would be down to it, period. But remember, this needs to be consensual and comfortable, so always have a clear conversation before doing anything rash.

10. Taste Of An Adventure!

Keeping the fetish and intimacy aside, some people want to try out breastfeeding just because they want to taste the breastmilk of their partner. Since it has a sweet taste and is creamy in texture, some men love the experience.

Even though you are more interested in knowing about the fetish, it is better if you know the health benefits it carries along with it.

Health benefits of adult breastfeeding

Adult breastfeeding is not just about intimacy and having an emotional connection. there has been research that shows the actual physical health benefits that come with it. It is a known fact that breastfeeding is beneficial for infants, but evidence says that breastfeeding benefits adults as well.

Human breast milk is filled with antibodies and nutrients that impact the mental and physical health of a person positively. It also has a way of boosting the immune system, lowering anxiety and stress levels, and reduces the risk of getting certain diseases and illnesses. Some evidence also says that adult breastfeeding releases bonding hormones like oxytocin, which positively impacts emotional and physical well-being.

Adult breastfeeding also gives a sense of security and comfort among both the involved partners. It creates a caring and nurturing environment, which has a way of reducing the levels of stress and anxiety. this is specifically beneficial for those who have gone through some emotional trauma and find it difficult to regulate their emotions.

The act of adult breastfeeding can be something that a couple might be interested in sexually. It might be something that they might want to experience and explore for the sole purpose of pleasure.

But there is something very important that comes with this, and that is consent. Both the partners involved have to be on the same page, both of them should consent to this before getting involved in the act.

Consent and adult breastfeeding 

Do not just get overboard with the health benefits and the fetishes. Adult breastfeeding is something that you must be interested in, but your partner must not be comfortable with it. You both must be on the same page about this.

This is someone that you have to want enthusiastically to get involved in. Before getting into adult breastfeeding, have an open conversation about it and make sure that you both feel safe and comfortable about it.

Consent is another important aspect of this. Before getting along with it, have a talk about the boundaries and things that you are comfortable with, and what you are not comfortable with. Respect the boundaries that you both have set for it and then get involved with the intimate act.

Is it possible to start lactation after breastfeeding your partner? 

Well, by now, you know how to start breastfeeding, or you might be having an adult nursing relationship with your partner. It is absolutely normal, as it has been mentioned in the article above, and there is nothing wrong if you enjoy it.

It might happen that you already have a child and still enjoy adult breastfeeding. But this is not something necessary to breastfeed your partner. You can also start lactating even without giving birth to your first child, though this is not something easy. To get that done, you have to make a lot of committed effort.

this needs consistent pumping or some hand expression to start the process of lactation and maintain it. But in most of the cases, hormone-mimicking drugs are required. There are some medications and herbs available that you can opt for to help and support the process.

But before you decide to take any medicines or supplements, it is better to consult a doctor. If you have any questions they are the best person to serve you with your query.

When should you not breastfeed your partner?

There is no problem with breastfeeding your partner and it does not pose any problem, in general. But it is better not to try it if you feel there are these circumstances:

1. You are not comfortable with this idea 

Not everybody enjoys breastfeeding their partners, and there could be multiple reasons behind it. Maybe it is physically uncomfortable and awkward for them, or you do not connect with the idea of adult erotic nursing. Or you are already worn out from nursing your baby.

Whatever the cause of your reluctance, there is no pressure to do this, or anything that you are not comfortable with. Try to communicate these things to your partner, and decide on something that you both are comfortable with, which you both are going to enjoy.

2. Buying Breastmilk Online   

Yes, we are talking about adult breastfeeding and we are talking about the real thing. But, if you are thinking of buying them online then you might be at risk. You don’t know whether it’s pure or not. It’s fine when you are doing it with your partner. Also, if the seller doesn’t confirm whether the milk is safety it might be harmful to your health. When the seller is sourcing the milk lactating mothers with any disease it may cause harm to your health as well.

3. You are having pain 

If you have sore breasts, it is common for you to have sensitive nipples. Or it could be painful to let down the reflux; that is when adult breastfeeding might hurt. The strength with which n adult sucks can be a lot more painful than a baby’s.

4. You have an infectious disease or HIV 

Any infectious disease or HIV can enter your breast milk and pass on through breastfeeding to your partner. There are some STDs or sexually transmitted diseases like syphilis and herpes that can spread if you breastfeed.

If your breasts are actively sore on your areolas, nipples, and breasts, there is a high chance of that happening. You and your partner should be aware of the risks that you are involved in.

5. If you are pregnant and have a high-risk pregnancy 

Suppose you are pregnant with more than one kid and had a miscarriage previously, or you have a history of getting preterm labor. In that case, it is best to consult a doctor and discuss the safe levels of stimulation.

6. While doing with a Partner You don’t Trust  

For adult breastfeeding, it’s important to ensure that you completely trust your partner. It’s something you can try with your partner. But, when you don’t know and trust your partner, it becomes difficult. First, you’ll lack the emotional bond that makes this entire process enjoyable. Secondly, you don’t know the types of germs and diseases your partner is carrying. You don’t want those to pass on to you. There’s a big chance of you developing syphilis, Hepatitis B, HIV, and Cytomegalovirus, etc.

Adult Breastfeeding: When Should I be  Concerned?

It is medically completely normal to try adult nursing. However, there are a few things you should be concerned about. Most of them are nothing major. However, you also cannot oversee them. Some of us don’t like the idea of sexualizing breastfeeding (which is fine), and it makes us uncomfortable.

This practice needs to be completely consensual and done if your partner feels comfortable. It is ok to talk to your partner about it.

• However, certain concerning causes like sore nipples, breast infection, or oversupply issues with your breasts.
• Also, people with HIV, herpes, or syphilis should consult their healthcare provider since the virus could enter their partner’s body.
• The sensation of burning around the nipple area or the baby’s mouth, called thrush, should also concern you before trying adult breastfeeding.
• Also, abstain from this practice if your partner has any health issues or viruses that could affect your or your baby’s health.

So, Should I Try It? 

Yes, by all means (if there are no concerning issues like those mentioned above; and if both have the consent and feel comfortable.). Breastfeeding during sex can be one of the best experiences to enjoy. So, if you are thinking of it and are comfortable, it can be a good experiment to try out in a relationship.

I hope you have found your answer. Let us know what you think of this topic in the comments.

We are eagerly waiting to hear what you think.

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